From: DevilsPGD on
In message <4cm6j3lqpqvee8h9hoc08vf5guffo6q27r(a)4ax.com> Martin D. Pay
<martin(a)starship-excalibur.co.uk> wrote:

>I have a sort-of-related question...
>
>When I've traveled in the US, sometimes I've paid the whole bill
>and tip in cash, sometimes paid the whole bill and tip on plastic
>and sometimes paid the bill on plastic and left the tip on the
>table in cash. Is there a preferred way (preferred, that is, by
>the waiting staff)? I sometimes wonder how much the waitress sees
>of a tip that goes on the plastic and so through the
>establishment's books...

This will vary by restaurant and region. IIRC, where I live the owner
must treat cash tips the same as credit card tips, and can choose to
distribute them on a per-server basis, split them across the staff, or a
few other combinations.

Keeping the tips is not one of those combinations though (Although I
think if it's distributed evenly, the owner can take a fair share)

All of this is based on chatting up waitresses, no actual research, so
take it with a grain of salt. Your experience will vary.

Personally, I don't carry cash, so the decision to put it all on plastic
is fairly easy for me.

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From: James Robinson on
Martin D. Pay <martin(a)starship-excalibur.co.uk> wrote:

> When I've traveled in the US, sometimes I've paid the whole bill
> and tip in cash, sometimes paid the whole bill and tip on plastic
> and sometimes paid the bill on plastic and left the tip on the
> table in cash. Is there a preferred way (preferred, that is, by
> the waiting staff)? I sometimes wonder how much the waitress sees
> of a tip that goes on the plastic and so through the
> establishment's books...

The wait staff probably prefer the payment in cash at the table, since
there is no record of the amount, and they get the cash directly. They
certainly won't refuse the payment on a credit card, since they typically
take the cash out of the drawer and pocket it as part of the transaction.
In some cases, the owner will distribute the cash at the end of the day
when the till is being reconciled.

There are various ways that tips are handled in restaurants. In most
cases, the wait staff keeps the tip. In some cases, all the money is put
into a pool and then divided up evenly among the wait staff. In some
cases the tip revenue is shared with the bartenders and chefs, according
to some agreed-to ratio, with the wait staff getting the majority. There
is no set rule.

There are also some shady restaurant owners who demand a cut of the tip
revenue. Those are not common.

From: Hatunen on
On Thu, 08 Nov 2007 18:50:17 +0000, Martin D. Pay
<martin(a)starship-excalibur.co.uk> wrote:

>I have a sort-of-related question...
>
>When I've traveled in the US, sometimes I've paid the whole bill
>and tip in cash, sometimes paid the whole bill and tip on plastic
>and sometimes paid the bill on plastic and left the tip on the
>table in cash. Is there a preferred way (preferred, that is, by
>the waiting staff)? I sometimes wonder how much the waitress sees
>of a tip that goes on the plastic and so through the
>establishment's books...

I have the same question and I, too, do it all three ways. I've
been assured that the tip goes to the right people when it's put
on the credit card

But in many establishments the tips all get pooled and split up
among the help, including the buspersons. This defeats the whole
purpose of tipping proportionate to the service received, and in
hope that the waiter will at least see the tip I tend to leave a
cash tip even if I pay with a credit card. Unfortunately, in many
restaurants the busperson sweeps up the tip while clearing the
table.

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From: Hatunen on
On Thu, 08 Nov 2007 12:42:24 -0700, DevilsPGD
<spam_narf_spam(a)crazyhat.net> wrote:

>In message <4cm6j3lqpqvee8h9hoc08vf5guffo6q27r(a)4ax.com> Martin D. Pay
><martin(a)starship-excalibur.co.uk> wrote:
>
>>I have a sort-of-related question...
>>
>>When I've traveled in the US, sometimes I've paid the whole bill
>>and tip in cash, sometimes paid the whole bill and tip on plastic
>>and sometimes paid the bill on plastic and left the tip on the
>>table in cash. Is there a preferred way (preferred, that is, by
>>the waiting staff)? I sometimes wonder how much the waitress sees
>>of a tip that goes on the plastic and so through the
>>establishment's books...
>
>This will vary by restaurant and region. IIRC, where I live the owner
>must treat cash tips the same as credit card tips, and can choose to
>distribute them on a per-server basis, split them across the staff, or a
>few other combinations.
>
>Keeping the tips is not one of those combinations though (Although I
>think if it's distributed evenly, the owner can take a fair share)

And report it on his/her income tax?

[...]

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From: Robert Cohen on
On Nov 8, 5:22 pm, Hatunen <hatu...(a)cox.net> wrote:
> On Thu, 08 Nov 2007 12:42:24 -0700, DevilsPGD
>
>
>
>
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> <spam_narf_s...(a)crazyhat.net> wrote:
> >In message <4cm6j3lqpqvee8h9hoc08vf5guffo6q...(a)4ax.com> Martin D. Pay
> ><mar...(a)starship-excalibur.co.uk> wrote:
>
> >>I have a sort-of-related question...
>
> >>When I've traveled in the US, sometimes I've paid the whole bill
> >>and tip in cash, sometimes paid the whole bill and tip on plastic
> >>and sometimes paid the bill on plastic and left the tip on the
> >>table in cash. Is there a preferred way (preferred, that is, by
> >>the waiting staff)? I sometimes wonder how much the waitress sees
> >>of a tip that goes on the plastic and so through the
> >>establishment's books...
>
> >This will vary by restaurant and region. IIRC, where I live the owner
> >must treat cash tips the same as credit card tips, and can choose to
> >distribute them on a per-server basis, split them across the staff, or a
> >few other combinations.
>
> >Keeping the tips is not one of those combinations though (Although I
> >think if it's distributed evenly, the owner can take a fair share)
>
> And report it on his/her income tax?
>
> [...]
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i suppose one
u.s. dollar per customer at a non-pretentious dinner or at a now
very common buffet restaurant is reasonable, or
in other words, two dollars per couple, et cetera--

you can certainly eventually get sick of 'em, but ryan's and the
other buffet restaurants convey unlimited and many varities of food,
and i bet few places in the world are this way, ten dollars or less
person, unlimited goood food

at the fancier class restaurants, tip at least ten percent of the
total bill, and of course many or rmost people leave 15 percent or
twenty percent or more

you'll feel ripped-off at yuppie places like ruby fridays, so wendy et
al fast food and those amazing buffet places are best for budget
traveller

for clothes and chotskies go to the tangar shopping outlet places
and several other factory outlet places is where the people genrally
seem to be especially on weekends



the u.s.a. is pndeed complex, so a guide book wouldn't hurt

if one is not affluent, one goes to wendy's etal